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a new Nurse...at a not so new age!!!
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Posted 3 months ago Hello All - Just wondering, what do nurses think of someone starting nursing later in life?? I've wanted to be a nurse for as long as I can remember.....I've been in 7 "lifesaving" situations in my life. (I always thought, God is telling me something.....) I just turned 40 and plan on going into Nursing (haven't started school yet, but I plan on starting this Winter) I'm very scared, especially considering I haven't been in college for 20 years, but I figure "what the hell?!?!?"
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| Posted 3 months ago Of course you should go for it!!! I've got one more semester of prerequisites and then hopefully start nursing school in the spring of 09. i'll turn 40 in April 09! If you don't do it now, you'll just be asking us in 10 years if 50 is too old to start nursing...and the answer will STILL be "Go for it!" |
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| Posted 3 months ago Wow! I just made 40 this past April!! So I have to listen to my astrological mate!!!! thank you thank you thank you!!! and most of all best of luck with school!!! Can you tell me if your prerequistes were horribly difficult?? I'm more than a little concerned about the Math requirements but doable!
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| Posted 3 months ago I started my prerequisits just before I turned fifty. I graduated at the age of 52. I continued to remind myself that no matter what my decision was I would still be 52 - nurse or not. For school, I kept it simple: 1. Don't ever act like you know everything, be humble 2. Don't talk about your past accomplishments 3. Work hard and put one foot in front of the other 4. Be kind and helpful to every member of your class. 5. Use good listening skills. Our class worked together as a team, we graduated 40 out of 41 students. All 40 passed the NCLEX on the first try. We did this by taping the classes (with our instructors permission) uploaded them on to a private website, we had study groups, if a person was weak in a subject, we reassigned them to a study group that was strong on that subject, we shared notes and study tips. As an RN: 1. Remember that your coworkers may not know you are a new grad and assume that you are much more experienced then you are. (On more than one occasion, while I was in school doing clinicals, staff nurses and patients thought I was one of the instructors) 2. There may be some bias towards hiring you, even in a nursing shortage several hospitals turned me down on the basis of age. Remember though, that someone will hire you and once you have experience, if you work with a good heart, age will not be as big a factor. 3. Never act like you know everything. 4. Be honest, considerate and kind to every coworker. 5. Always do the right thing. Where am I right now? I work as a staff Psych Nurse, in 3 different locations, as the unit educator at one and am working hard towards my Family APN. Good luck to you |
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| Posted 3 months ago Great info posted from woodruffgapgal. I graduate in 2009, God willing. I am the youngest in my nursing school, but that doesn't bother me. There are a few women in their 40's in the class. I salute them! If it's hard for me, it's even harder for them as they raise their family, do housework, and pursue their dream of nursing. It's all GOOD no matter what your AGE is. Live life.
*Samantha*
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| Posted 3 months ago You go girl!!!! |
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| Posted 3 months ago Well I am slightly younger but not by much. I am 32 and I graduate in less than 3 months. And believe me I am not the oldest person in my class. There are a couple of ladies that are grandmothers. And I know one lady is in her 50's and she wants to continue on the become a NP. So you are never too old. My mother was 49 when she finished school. She is not a RN but hey I am proud of her for going back. |
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| Posted 3 months ago I'm also looking to start a career in nursing at the age of 42. If I would have been thinking, I would have gotten the schooling out of the way, while I was a stay at home mom with my boys. They are now 22 and 13, and I absolutely love the medical field everything about it interests me. My mom was in an accident in 1997 and I took care of her while she was recovering from a broke back, and is now in an assisted living facility, and it doesn't bother me to go to the facility to take care of her and talk to the people who are also living there with her. My question is how do you get started. I would like to do as much as possible on line, I' m a self motivator. I can read something and figure out how to do it, I love to learn, and have wanted to be a nurse as long as I can remember but didn't have the confidence in myself until recently when I took a night course for Pharmacy Technician and absolutely loved it, and then got offered the job I'm currently at as a Dialysis Technician, that took 10 weeks of training, and I then realized how much I enjoyed learning and working with people. What kind of Pre Req's are involved, how do I get started? |
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| Posted 3 months ago 2BARN says ...
The only advise I can give you is to contact your local school of nursing that you are interested in. There are a lot of schools that require different pre-reqs. So I can't tell you what pre-reqs you would need because your program would be different than my program. Have them send you some information on the program. |
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| Posted 3 months ago Ok thanks I will check with the school in my area... 2BARN |
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| Posted 3 months ago Wannabenurse: go for it. The students in nursing classes are all now older students. I was 40 when I went for my LPN, 50 when I got my BSN. I wll be 60 when I finish the DNP program. Go for it. Ginny |
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| Posted 3 months ago I was 40 when I started working on my prereqs and almost 45 when I got my ADN. I posted a news article a couple of days ago titled, "Older Nurse Graduates Find Their Niche." I found it interesting. You should read it. It said it was common to enroll students in their 30's, 40's and 50's and average ages was 29. I found another site http://www.allnursingschools.com/faqs/nursing_2nd_career.php that had these facts.
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| Posted 3 months ago wow! thank all of you for the wonderful comments and undying support!! This makes me feel so much better about this major life changing decision I'm about to embark on.....i'm still very very nervous, but with support like this, how can i not succeed?!?!?
Thank you all!!! |
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| Posted 3 months ago woodruffgapgal says ...
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| Posted 3 months ago Wannabanurse- GO FOR IT! I am the mother of 2 young adults (21 and 22). Becoming an RN has always been my dream but I delayed pursuing this goal until my children were older. I entered college at age 47. I had never taken a college course prior to this! A couple of my co-workers thought I was crazy, saying it would take me 4 years to obtain an ADN. Well, it's now 4 years later... at age 51, I'm proud to say I graduated in May 2008, passed my boards (with 75 questions), and now I'm looking for an entry level RN position! Once I am working for a while, I want to pursue a BSN. Going to school full-time and working 31 hours a week (I carry the family's health insurance) was not easy, by any means. My family, especially my husband, supported my decision wholeheartedly. There were many times that I felt like I could not continue this hectic schedule but my husband was always there to boost my morale....through sleepless nights, tears, endless study sessions, etc. Pursue your dream! Don't let your age be an obstacle. Not many people retire at an early age. My dear mother is a great example and inspiration- she's still working (at least 24 hours/week) as a hospital switchboard operator at age 74! Hopefully my mind, health, and body will remain as strong as hers...that calculates to more than 20 years as a nurse. Although I'm nervous about starting my new career, I am also excited. Good luck to you!
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| Posted 3 months ago I went back to school and got my ADN just before my 40th birthday. While in school, my oldest son was born with Spina Bifida, went through multiple hospitalizations and neurosurgeries and yet I never missed a day of classes. He can even say he went to college when he was 18 months old. He used to go to my A&P study group with me! My youngest was born while I was in school as well, they are only 15 months apart. He was very sick at birth and was in the NICU in critical condition for 3 days, with a total hospital stay of 11 days. I only missed one lecture and the instructor was very understanding. Today, I work as a Pediatric ICU nurse and am also working as a travel nurse. My wife and kids travel the country with me, we homeschool the boys, now 5 and 6, and they get to 'see the world'. Going back to school was the best thing I ever did! I wouldn't trade any of the challenges I faced for anything in the world. It will seem scary and sometimes insurmountable at the time, but when you finish and look back, you will be thankful for all the challenges. It will make you a better nurse and a better person. |






